Episode 310
Surviving Domestic Violence: 2 Year Freedom Anniversary
"In my very, very broken state, God said to me, 'I got you.'" - Wesleyne
In this episode, Wesleyne bravely shares her journey of survival and healing after experiencing domestic violence.
Two years ago, she faced a life-threatening situation at the hands of her former husband, which became a turning point in her life.
Despite enduring years of manipulation and abuse, Wesleyne found strength in her faith and the unwavering support of her loved ones.
Through prayer, therapy, and a deep commitment to healing, she emerged from the darkness of her past, empowered and renewed.
Wesleyne's story offers hope to those involved in domestic violence, reminding listeners that they are not alone and that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Key Points:
- Turning Point: Wesleyne shares the pivotal moment when her life took a drastic turn two years ago, marked by a violent encounter with her former husband.
- Finding Strength in Faith: Despite the terrifying circumstances, Wesleyne's faith sustained her, as she found solace in prayer and relied on her belief that God had a greater purpose for her life.
- Overcoming Manipulation: Wesleyne reflects on the psychological manipulation she endured during her 15-year marriage, shedding light on the tactics abusers use to control and demean their victims.
- The Healing Journey: Through the support of loved ones and professional therapy, Wesleyne embarked on a journey of healing, addressing the trauma inflicted by her abusive past and reclaiming her sense of self-worth.
- Message of Hope: Wesleyne's story serves as a beacon of hope for those dealing with domestic violence, reminding listeners that they are not alone and that healing is possible with faith, support, and resilience.
What questions are you struggling to answer? Wesleyne would love to answer these questions for you personally. Send any questions or prayer requests to hello@askwesleyne.com
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Transcript
Two years ago today, my life permanently changed. The verse that I use, they carried me through. 2022 is Genesis 50 verses 20, which I'll paraphrase. You intended to harm me, but God intended for good.
Wesleyne (:My former husband tried to kill me on this day two years ago as I was laying in the bed and he was standing on top of me choking me. I saw my life flash before me and I said, Lord, is this it? Am I going to home to see you today? I closed my eyes and I just started praying.
And through my prayers, God answered those prayers because he was arrested, he was taken to jail, and for the past two years, he has been unable to speak to me, to come within 100 feet of me, to do anything to harm me physically, emotionally, or mentally.
But the marriage that I was in for 15 years, my marriage literally almost killed me.
Wesleyne (:And now, as I stand on the other side of coming out of an abusive marriage, coming out of a place where a person manipulated me into believing that I was the issue, that I was the problem, that I was the manipulator, I see how God in his marvelous work.
was able to take me in my very, very broken state. He was able to take me when I felt like my heart was shattered in a million little pieces. And he said, I got you. And through the past two years, I have healed. I have healed from the trauma of my marriage. I have healed from the trauma that got me into.
my marriage. I have healed the little girl, Wesleyne, who
felt like she had to work to earn love. I've healed the little girl, Wesleyne, that felt like she had to always run and chase and do. I've healed her. And the way that I've healed her is giving my life, my mind, my body, my soul, my everything completely to God.
I allowed the Holy Spirit to wash over me. I allowed him to be my comforter. I allowed him to be my healer. I sought professional help. I have done intensive therapy to work through all of the thoughts, all of the things in my head that held me back for so long.
Wesleyne (:And my support system is so strong. I have friends, I have family, I have people in my life that support me, that remind me of who I am, that allow me to cry, that allow me to grieve, but didn't allow me to stay there. So today, I stand before you as a survivor of domestic violence in a place
where I am completely healed. Healing is a process. There is not a period. There are many, many comas. But for the woman, for the man who needs to have hope today, who is wondering if God is with you, if God is hearing you, just know that He is. He is with you. He stands beside you. He's right there.
And at that moment when you feel like giving up, that's the moment God says, well, I got you. If you want to give up, that's okay because I got you.
